Self-esteem – confidence in one's
own worth or abilities; self-respect.
Self-esteem reflects a person's overall subjective emotional
evaluation of his or her own worth.
It is a judgment of oneself as well as an attitude toward the self. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs (for example, "I am competent", "I am worthy") and emotions such as triumph, despair, pride, and shame. (source Wikipedia.org)
It is a judgment of oneself as well as an attitude toward the self. Self-esteem encompasses beliefs (for example, "I am competent", "I am worthy") and emotions such as triumph, despair, pride, and shame. (source Wikipedia.org)
Having a good self-esteem, you feel secure and worthwhile.
You have generally positive relationships with others and feel confident about
your abilities. You're also open to learning and feedback, which can help you
acquire and master new skills.
Having a good self-esteem can affect your daily lives as
well as your health. Like which you will feel more progressive, less stress,
and passionate. Self-esteem tend to affect your Career as well,
having a good confidence leads better Career.
Quote of the Day:
“On most days, the
biggest thing you can do is a small act of kindness, decency or love.”
-Cory Booker
How to improve self-esteem?
Here’s
a list of tips on how you can improve your self – esteem so that you get a
better chance to have a good career.
1 Learn to accept
yourself - Accepting your fault, or
the mistakes you’ve done can improve self-esteem or confidence, by learning
through it you gain experienced and by experience you will know what to do the
next time you have those challenges. Applying it to your daily activities even
in search for a job will have a good effect in positive way.
2 Dress no stress – Wearing un-comfortable
dress can lead to stress that affects your self-esteem confidence, and It can
ruin your whole day just by wearing wrong dress. Like what we discuss in our
last blog about how to groom your-self properly, dress in appropriate
especially when applying and wear comfortable professional dress so that you we
feel special and tend to have higher chance than your competitors.
3 Say hello to yourself – It may sound crazy, but
study shown that talking to your-self can dramatically improve your self-esteem, through
it you can assess what you’ve done the whole day, whole week, and what you can
do to improve it. And if you achieved job well done or you finish, or pass some
challenges, just congratulate your-self and give your-self a little treat if
you have some extra.
4 Plan ahead – Planning ahead is
a key to success and boost your self-esteem. Even if you don’t know
whether you can do it or not, planning ahead can give you guide of your
everyday course and activities, planning ahead includes scheduling things that
you will do, so that every step you make is according to your plan and you know
that you have to achieved it.
5 Always think success - Thinking success
can help you get through everyday challenges, by which you tend to have a
positive mind and body, having physically and mentally positive can lessen your
stress, and lesser stress leads to better thinking and understanding things in
front of your way so that you can detour your-self to best way to achieve your
goals.
6 List your Goals – Setting up goals
can help your self-esteem a lot, because setting up goals is not just about
achieving. It will also give’s inspiration through your daily life that leads
you to think that if I achieved this goal, I will have this reward.
However if you didn’t achieved your goal, try another one and if you still
didn’t achieved it try and try, but if you didn’t achieved it again the third
time, it means you have to move on and set a different path of goals.
7 Step-by-step – Like in no. 1, 4, 5, and
6, you have to include step-by-step procedure. As you can observe big
companies, hospitals, application for passport, driving, license etc…
As you can see every-one
of those things that I mention have a step by step procedure that needs to
follow, in same manner you have to have step-by-step procedure applied to your Goals,
Success, Plans, by having steps you will have to start from low to high,
to be able to achieve those certain things that you wanted in your life.
8 Tracker List – Tracker list is all
about your daily activities, it is a paper, that consist of your daily plans or
you can call it as no. 7 said step-by-step procedure. Just do this
little advice, try to grab a paper every night before you sleep, list down at least
3 to 5 things that you need to achieved the next day like simple stuff, example
I have to finish my laundries tomorrow and after that I need to clean the
toilet and after that I need to go to market to by ingredients for our dinner
lunch or whatever occasion it is. What I was trying to say is if you achieved
those little things you’ll get happy that day, and as I always say a happy mind
and body can lead to success.
9 Don’t get over
confident – Doing no’s. 1 to 8 can
have you a good and positive self-esteem in that so, just don’t get to cocky or
don’t make over satisfied or over confidence in short, just make sure that your
always on the middle, or your always balance. Because having an over confident
attitude can
lead to a bad manner which
can cause negative effect in your daily life.
10 LOVE YOUR SELF
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